Because I peed on him

In a living situation, I’ll want my own room, and for each of my loves to have their own room. Then we can each visit each other’s room. If the door is open, come on in. Closed doors, knock first. The dream idea is that everyone in the poly family living together had their own space, a bedroom, or a “tiny” house.


Love, Where do we go from here?

There are times I do not feel you belong as anything in my life. Times when you seem my oldest friend, the one I can talk to about anything. Times when there’s no way I can tell you anything.
Friends at least, if no longer partners going through life side by side.

Do you love me? Really?

 I want to know.

You found someone interesting? Cool. How long have you been talking? Ok, do you feel there’s potential there, what do you think the direction will be? Cool, when they are around for a few months I’ll want to know what direction the relations is going. And I’ll want to check in and see how it’s going periodically as well.